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Singleton Morsing posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago
Rami Beracha writes about the venture capital world. Rami is also co-founder at Sosa.
Communication is a huge issue. It’s a danger zone, which is our mistake. It begins one second after the first encounter with another person, and concludes with an incredible explosion…
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We make the biggest mistake of thinking we’re in complete alignment with the expectations of our partners. One thing is certain that our partner will not miss an chance to expand this gap . There’s no one in the world who can warn us of the imminent conflict.
There are many reasons for confusion, and many of them are related to our personality. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate more than liberal people, while individuals who are aggressive may have trouble aligning their expectations with those of passive individuals. This is easy to identify as We all know what the word “squared” signifies.
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But what if they are completely different? There is a chance that there exists an individual gap in personality that is not known about. There is no one who has noticed it and warned others about it, studied it…NOT REFUSE! !
Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen, to a new type personality we all have: the FULL CIRCLE personalities in contrast to the half-circular individuals. !
It is a guide to behavior. After reading the following analysis Try to figure out which type of personality most accurately describes you. Also, try to find out who your partner is in your life. If you discover that you’re of two distinct types, like Bono says “we’re one , but we’re not alike”, then you should be content. You may have found the root-cause of some of the differences in your life! If you’re of the opposite kind I’m sorry that I could help you comprehend the reasons why your relationships look like a mess.
Here we take a look…
Two kinds of human beings are there. Certain of us are divided into two groups that are self-contained while others are completely at home alone. Sure, he would like to connect with other people and, yes, he is always seeking people to share his life with. Absolutely! all true! … However, until he’s found the perfect partner, he will be able to live without one. He would like to spend his entire life with his partner and is hoping to make it to the end of his circle.
The “half-a circle” type is the other side of humanity. (No it’s not a the full-circle type that was damaged in delivery). And once they have found the miserable creature, THEY DO NOT LET GO! They will attempt to live with the victim as if were one of them and refuse to give up the concept of living together. They’ll not be compromising on being capable of looking at each others for the rest of their lives. Their desire to be one with their spouse and make a complete unit can only be satisfied by something less intimate.
One of the most fascinating observations between kinds is the way they choose to part ways with their companion. The full circle is likely to be able to let go of the person he has lost his chemistry with. The ‘half-a-circle’ types are, however, will redefine the definition of ‘having mutual chemistry with their partner as ‘I’m hanging on to this B..ST..RD until I am able to replace him with a proper upgrade’.
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Imagine the awe-inspiring dance happening when two people, a “half-a-circle” and an “full-circle” attempt to make one each other the other’s partner, but not aware of their differing geometries. The Half takes two steps forward and over the comfortable zone of the Full, who find this unexpected invasion to his personal zone a bit too intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he stepped out half of his comfortable zone …. and as the Half was sure the Full was making an innocent mistake and the Full was sure of it, the Half gets angry and takes a step forward. They don’t know why, however, they don’t have the proper terms and are unable to describe it. Therefore, they head to the wrong areas. It could be a lot easier for them to live if they had known the difference between the half and full.
While there isn’t any one conclusion, there are a variety of ways to go about it.
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1. Learn who you are
2. Find out about your partner
3. Recognize the difference.
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3. Respect the difference!
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actually, one conclusion actually, one conclusion: Live and let live.