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Rami Beracha’s blog about the venture capital market. Rami is also Co-Founder of Sosa.

The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It’s like a minefield. It starts a second after the first encounter with someone and ends with a massive explosion…

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Our biggest mistake is that, with no reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume complete alignment in the expectations of both sides without trying to pick our partner’s mind to determine what his expectations from us are. One thing we do agree on is that our partner doesn’t miss an opportunity to increase the gap in expectations ….. And there is no one out there to alert us to the upcoming confrontation.

There are many causes of miscommunications. They’re usually due to our individual personalities. Squared personalities are more likely than liberal personalities to miscommunicate, and people who are aggressive might have difficulties getting their expectations in line with passive. This is easy to spot because We all know what the word “squared” means.

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But what if they are totally different? Consider if there’s a personality gap. There is no one who has noticed it and warned others about it, or investigated it…NOT be a FRAUD! !

Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to a different kind of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALLF CIRCLE personality! !

Note : This analysis is designed to provide guidance for your behavior. After reading this report, you’ll be able to identify the personality that best describes you. You can also try to find your spouse in your life. You might be shocked to find that your personalities are different. According to Bono sang, “we are one, but we are not the identical.” This is a great sign as it could mean that you’ve identified the root of many of your differences. If you’re on the other side you’re of the same type, then I’m sorry but I can’t help you understand why your relationships look like the same thing…

And here we are…

Two types of human beings exist. Some of us can be split into two groups one of which is self-contained while others feel completely at home. Yes, he does need a partner. Absolutely! It’s all true … It is possible to live without the perfect partner. When he finds the right one then he’ll be able to live his life with his full circle partner.

The “half of a circle” people on the other side need a partner. They’ll never let go of the idea once they’ve found their miserable partner. They’ll move to physically integrate with their victim to create one joyful circle… and don’t give them this bullshit of living shoulder-to-shoulder! They’ll not be compromising on being able to stare at each others for the rest of their lives. They will not accept anything less intimate in order to fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and make up a whole.

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A fascinating observation between the different types is how they decide to part ways with their companion. The full circle is likely to be quick to let go of the partner with whom they’ve lost chemistry with. Half-circles on the other hand redefine the idea of having an chemistry’ with their partner to mean: ‘I’m holding the B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him correctly’.

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Imagine the amazing dance that takes place in the moment two “half-a-circle” and a “full-circle” are trying to impress his partner, not being aware of their differing geometries. The Half moves two steps ahead, way past the comfort zone of the Full, who finds this sudden entry of his personal space little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. But the problem is that he did the Half step outside of his familiar area …… The Half is aware that the Full has made an innocent error, so the Half takes a second step backwards.. But the Half quickly gets angry and begins to take an even bigger and more aggressive step.. Both understand why, but aren’t using the correct terms. They aren’t able to properly express their frustration, and so they search at the wrong things. It could be a lot easier for them to live if they had known the difference between the Half and Full.

There isn’t any single conclusion, there are some steps you can take.

1. Find out who you are.

2. Discover who is your true partner is.

3. Recognize that there is a distinction.

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3. Be aware of the differences!

Let’s just say that there is only one conclusion Live and let be.