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Rami Beracha’s blog about the venture capital industry. Rami Beracha is the co-founder of Sosa.
Communication is a huge issue. It can be a minefield that is our own responsibility. It starts a second after making contact with a person, and ends with an amazing explosion…
Rami Beracha
The biggest error we make is always taking for granted that there is a complete alignment of expectations on both sides. We don’t try to get inside our partner’s thoughts to find out what his expectations are. The one thing we do have in common is that our counterpart is not afraid to increase the gap in expectations ….. No one is there to warn us of the imminent confrontation.
There are many reasons behind communication issues. They usually are related to our individual personas. People with square personalities are more likely to not communicate with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities may be unable to reconcile their expectations with those of passive personalities. But this is easy to identify – we all recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.
But what if they are completely different? Imagine that there’s a type of a personality gap that exists, but is not even noticed by us. It is not something that anybody has researched, warned of, or discovered. !
Ladies and gentlemen let me present to you the different personality types The FULL and half circle people! !
Note: A behavioral guideline when reading the coming analysis look for which personality describe you best and also look for out which one of your friends is. If you discover that you’re of two distinct types, then you should be satisfied. This could be the reason for the differences you have. If however, you’re identical in your appearance, then I’m sorry that I can’t help but to tell you why your relationships look so awful.
So here we begin…
Rami Beracha
Humans are divided into two distinct groups. Certain of us are ‘full-circle’ types which is a person who is completely comfortable alone. Yes, he needs to be around someone else, and yes, he’s always looking for one. Absolutely! It is all true … However, he’ll never be able survive without the right companion. He would like to share his life with his partner and is determined to make it to the end of his circle.
The other human side is made up of “half-a-circle” types (not to be confused with “half-a-circle”) (no, it’s not full circles that got damaged in the course of the delivery) – … It’s true, they need a partner and yes, they need a partner badly, yes, they’re in constant, almost religious, search for a partner… and yes it’s as important in terms of national security to locate their ideal partner as they just cannot survive without one. When they find the miserable animal and they are determined to keep it go. They will work to physically join their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves don’t want to sacrifice anything other than staring at each other from a distance of zero throughout their lives. Only intimate relationships fulfill their desire to be connected with one another and form an entire.
Rami Beracha
An interesting observation among the different types is how they decide to let go of their partners. The complete circle will usually let go quickly of the partner with whom they’ve lost their chemistry. The half-a–circle’ types on the other side will redefine the notion of having the same chemistry’ as their partners to mean: ‘I’m holding onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him properly’.
Imagine the amazing dance that occurs when two people in a “half” and “full” circle attempt to be their counterparts. They’re not aware of their differences. The Half makes two leaps forward, far from the comfort zone of his Full, who considers this sudden invasion of his personal space a little too scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. However, by the fact taking the Half out of his comfortable zone …. the Half is certain that the Full was making an innocent mistake and take a step to make up for it with a step forward. The Full begins to be irritated and make another, bigger step in the opposite direction.. the Half begins to suspect that there is something sinister regarding what’s happening here and his next step isn’t exactly gentle.. The Full.. the Half.. the Full and the half are pissed of off the other. They can’t describe their hurt and have no idea why. They could have saved their lives by knowing that one is Half and the other is Full.
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While there isn’t any one conclusion, there are a variety of actions that can be taken.
1. Discover who you are
2. Find out more about your friend
3. Be aware of the difference.
3. Respect the difference!
One conclusion is”Live and let live..