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Rami Beracha’s blog is about the venture capital industry. Rami is the co-founder and CEO at Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very serious. It’s a danger zone and is entirely our responsibility. It starts seconds after making contact and culminates in an amazing explosion…
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The most common mistake we make is to assume that we’re completely in sync in our expectations of each side and not trying to guess what our partner’s expectations are of us. There is one thing that we are completely in agreement with our partner on the other hand – he never misses the chance to increase the gap between expectations. …. There isn’t anyone in the world who can warn us of the imminent clash.
There are a variety of reasons for miscommunications. They are usually related to our personal personas. People who are squared are more likely than those with liberal personalities to miscommunicate, and individuals who are aggressive may have difficulty in coordinating expectations with passive. This is easy to recognize – everyone knows the difference between moderate and passive from aggressive.
They may not be aware that they’re different. It’s possible that there is a personality gap, which we aren’t aware of. It has never been discovered, warned about or investigated it. !
Let me introduce to you, gentlemen and ladies the new type of personality that we all share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus people from the half circle! !
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Note: A behavioral guideline as you read the following analysis, look for which personality define you the best, and at the same time attempt to determine which one of your friends is. If you find that you’re of two different types and you are not happy. It could be the reason behind some of your differences. If, on the other hand, you are the same person I’m sorry but I cannot help you understand the reason why your relationships look so bad.
And here we begin…
Two types of people are human. Certain of us fall in the “full-circle” category which refers to a person that can be completely independent and does not feel like needing an accomplice. Sure, he needs an accomplice. Absolutely! All true! … However, he will have to live without the perfect partner until he gets it. Once he has found his ideal partner and is ready to live his life shoulder-to-shoulder with his – hopefully full circle of friends.
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The “half-a circle” kind is the opposite face of the human race. (No it’s not a the full-circle type that was damaged in the birth). Once they have found the miserable animal, they will not ever let it go! They will work to physically integrate their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves will not compromise on anything less than starring one at the other from a zero distance throughout their lives. Nothing less intimate can give them the desire to connect with one another and form one whole.
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Interesting observation between the two types: the choice to let go of a partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion with whom he has lost their chemistry rapidly. The half-circle type will however redefine what it means to have an enmity with their partner. They will say that they’re ‘holding onto this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with an version.
Imagine the incredible dance between a “half-a circle” and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The issue is that he made this move by forcing the Half out of his comfortable zone . While the Half thinks that the Full committed an error that was not his fault and took another step forward, the Half begins to become irritated and takes another step backward.. The Full.. Half.. and the Half are both a bit off. The Half and the Full know why but lack proper language. They aren’t able to properly express their anguish so they look for the wrong thing. They could have been spared had they known that the one they are looking for is Half and the other is full.
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While there is no one answer, there are many ways to go about it.
1. Find out who you are.
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2. Find out more about your partner
3. There is a distinction.
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3. Respect that distinction!
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Actually, there is a conclusion actually, one conclusion: Live and let live.