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Rami Beracha is the writer for this blog. This blog is all about venture capital. Rami Beracha is the co-founder of Sosa.
It’s a major issue when people don’t understand. It’s almost like a minefield. It begins a second after we make the first contact with someone and ends with an impressive explosion…
Our greatest mistake is when we believe that there is complete co-operation in the expectations of our partners and do not even try to understand the expectations of our partner. We’re almost always in total alignment with our partner except for one aspect : he doesn’t overlook the chance to expand this gap . No one is there to warn us about the coming conflict.
Rami Beracha
There are many causes of miscommunications. They’re usually due to our personality. Squared personalities are more likely than liberal individuals to communicate poorly, while people who are aggressive might have difficulties aligning expectations with passive. However, this is not difficult to recognize – we know squared from liberal, and aggressive from passive.
But, what do you think if they’re very different and they don’t realize that. Imagine that there exists a sort of a personality gap that exists, but which is not even noticed by us. This isn’t something anybody has researched or warned about, nor traced. !
Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to a different type of personality that is shared by all of us: the FULL CIRCLE versus the HALLF CIRCLE personalities! !
Note : This analysis is intended to provide behavioral guidance. When you go through this analysis, you will be able identify which personality describes you best. You can also try to identify your life partner. If you find that you’re of two different types, then you should be happy. This could be the reason behind the differences you have. If you’re on the other side, you are of the same kind I’m sorry, but I’m unable to help you comprehend the reason why your relationships appear to be nothing but shit…
We are here…
רמי ברכה
Humans can be divided into two distinct groups. There are two types of human beings one of which is the “full circle” type, who is self-contained and is completely comfortable being by themselves. Yes, he wants to partner with others and the truth is, he’s always looking for an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It’s all true … However, he will have to live without his dream partner until he finds one. And, once he has found one, he wishes to live his life, in a relationship with his hopefully complete circle – partner.
The “half a circle” individuals on the opposite side have a partner. When they discover the awful creature and they are unable to give up! They’ll attempt to live with their victim as if they were one of them, and refuse to give up the idea of living together. The Halves will never sacrifice their affection for one another. They will gaze at each other in the same way from the distance for the rest of their lives. They won’t compromise on anything less intimate in order to fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and create a whole.
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An interesting observation between the two types of people is the choice to let go of the person you are with. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion who has lost chemistry very quickly. Half-circle people, however, redefine what ‘having mutually in chemistry with their partners means – ‘I’m still holding onto this B..ST..RD until I can safely replace them with a proper upgrade’.
רמי ברכה
Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance happening when a “half-a-circle” and the “full-circle” are trying to impress their partner, without being aware of their different geometries. The Half takes two steps forward and over the comfortable zone of the Full who considers this unwelcome invasion into his own personal space a bit intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. Problem is, he made the Half step out of his comfort area …… The Half realizes that the Full made an error that was not his fault, and the Half takes a second step backwards.. But the Half is soon upset and begins to take a bigger, more aggressive step.. They understand why, but due to lack of proper terminology, they cannot properly explain their plight and turn to the wrong places! They could have saved themselves if they had known the distinction between Half and Full.
There isn’t one conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
1. Discover who you are
2. Find out more about your partner
3. There’s a difference.
3. Respect different opinions!
One conclusion is”Live and let live.